Faith, Hope and Love
作者：文明办 点击率：1958 Published: June 12, 2014 Author: Civilization Hits: 1958
"Mind" wrote: "The Bible says that there are three things in this world that are most important to humans, FAITH, HOPE, LOVE. I think what I can see is right The best interpretation of these three words is the hospital. "Indeed, in the current difficult situation of the intricate relationship between doctors and patients in the society, whether belief, hope and love are being resolved indefinitely, or are being rebuilt intentionally, yet There is consensus and conclusion.
In the novel, the director of neurosurgery has such a paragraph, which can be regarded as encouragement or comfort. "Some people are unwilling to do it after being a student for a few years or as a doctor for a few years. I congratulate them, and they have time to change careers. But I cherish the team left behind and cherish you. Those talents may be better than you But they did not become a qualified doctor, because they were a little bit worse. An excellent doctor is a person with conviction, a person with a firm conviction, and will experience all kinds of hardships in our industry. No regrets. "
I believe that there are many perseverances in life that are not necessarily fruitful, such as insisting on dreams, insisting on your own path, and insisting on loving someone, because you will face all kinds of external temptations, self-doubts and others before you get what you want. Don't understand. But on the long road of perseverance, if you can really hold your convictions and keep up with the day, I believe that the excitement and encouragement will make you firmly believe that all the past payoffs are worth it.
In the novel, "Doctors are like judges and policemen. From the day you put on your uniform, you do n’t represent yourself, you are the embodiment of salvation." In reality, doctors are not only savers of life, he also saves those Sickness gives up hope of survival.
The author Liuliu said in an interview: I met a man in the operating room that I thought was going to die, and everyone thought he was dead. But the medical staff knew they could not do it. In the end, a miracle happened: the man was rescued after a dozen hours of rescue. Even the doctor wiped his sweat and said, "His life is so big!" I also saw the doctor stitches meninges in the operating room. This is a technique that is almost lost, because it is time-consuming and labor-intensive. Most people Use artificial meningeal as a patch to finish. I asked him why you did such a job! He replied: "I practice my skills, and my skills are not overwhelming." Later I learned that the patient was from a rural village in mountainous areas of Fujian. The income for one year could not afford the operation. A piece of meninges costs more than 800 yuan. He saved time for the patient with his time and skills. He does such a good thing, the patient lying in the bed will never know, and the news media will not report his kindness. If it happened that I wasn't standing by the side and asking more questions, such a thing would be obliterated.
To re-establish a virtuous circle between doctors and patients, one party must reach out first. Relatively speaking, it may be easier for doctors. I hope this can open a door and build a bridge for both sides. From mutual suspicion and hostility to mutual understanding, try to believe in the goodness of this world, we can increase the sense of security and happiness.
LOVE, love-big love
The loss of trust between doctors and patients can easily wash away the love and watch between people, just like the erosion of soil and water. The promising doctor in the novel was fined for a medical dispute and simply switched to a lawyer, specializing in the doctor-patient relationship case, "turning the muzzle and attacking his colleague". The protagonist Xiao Lei was beaten tragically by the troublemaker, and ultimately could not adhere to his ideal of an angel in white and resigned to marry a rich man. In these incidents, sometimes it is indeed the misconduct of a very small number of doctors that causes patients to have distrust of all medical staff, but if there is more love, more care, and more smiles between doctors and patients, the relationship will inevitably be Improved. If we always use a magnifying glass to pick up on the shortcomings and faults of others, but openly accept kindness and favors, and give thanks to the trust between people, this will be destroyed.
"A lot of times, it's not about the judgment of your profession, but about the warmth of your language. If you change a soft tone and say even a word of love, patients and family members can't hate you anyway." As a medical care Staff, the trust of patients is the most valuable. Medical staff is responsible for patients, but also responsible for themselves. We should learn "transposition thinking" and think "if I am a patient, what kind of medical staff do I hope to meet?" Personally, we can better serve our patients by adjusting to improve ourselves and improve ourselves.
"Faith, hope, love" is a tripod for the soul of society. Destroying them only takes time, and it takes time and effort to rebuild. I am very glad that at the end of "Mind Skills", the author, through ordinary people, ordinary things and the faint touches of their passing, let us see the possibility of "faith, hope, love" reconstruction. I think this is also the most beautiful expectation of many people for China's prospects: In a society where "basic goodness is tortured and normal conscience is afraid to be revealed", we have already tasted the loss of "faith, hope, love" A vicious circle, and the only way out is only one, another, and one more ordinary person, willing to persevere for a while in the confusion, forgive again, pay more, and rebuild the foundation of society, even if this needs For a long time. But starting from me, starting from now, give more trust to others, give more hope to others, and stick to it, the vision will eventually become a reality.